I admire Selkie for her strength of self, her Take Me As I Am attitude and her purifying rage. She works in that most difficult and revealing genre: self-portraiture, and what comes across is her vulnerability and her strength. What she says is true: domestic violence affects someone you know. One in four women who go to the emergency room are there because of domestic violence. Be aware. Donate to women’s shelters. Don’t look the other way.